Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

Single parent in late 30s, husband left 2 years ago. The kids have found it difficult and still struggle so no jumping into new relationships for me.
I do sometimes just miss sex. Not just orgasms but generally intimacy with it too.

Do I just have to wait it out for me to just not be interested any more? Do I have to accept that part of my life is over?

I posted this on Dadsnet too, but thought id try here as well.
Ive been with my bf for about 6 months now. He’s amazing when it comes to sex, foreplay and satisfying me basically. However i have absolutely no clue as to how else to satisfy him during foreplay other than giving a Bj.

please please, can you guys share some ideas for foreplay that men like that i could try. Could be anything at all.

Thank you!

I’ve had a quick Google which says that it’s a myth and a potential health problem. If we haven’t had sex for around 1-2 weeks (but after foreplay so aroused) everything feels so tight, uncomfortable for me, DP says it feels good. We’re normally more regular but if life has got in the way etc and it’s over a week this is the only way I can describe it? Slightly embarrassing, is it worth a trip to the Drs or has anyone else experienced similar?

If my husband wants sex (usually before bed at night) he will suddenly start touching me down below. I really struggle as I usually don’t already feel turned on and that doesn’t do it for me…I would much rather start with kisses or cuddles or stroking or whatever to get me in the mood. I don’t know what is normal for others though but I have tried saying what I’d like but he just never seems to make the effort and I sort of just end up feeling like a piece of meat and not really worth making the effort for. It just doesn’t feel sexy. I feel like we’ve been married for so long though I don’t know what is normal and if I should just let him get on with it and learn to feel more comfortable with it and if that’s normal for other couples too.

I really have this urge to lay older women
Btw anyone who wld luv the experience.my inbox is open