I’d like to ask for others’ opinions regarding my situation. I'm in a sexless marriage with my husband of 17 years. It's been sexless for almost 3 years and seems very unlikely to change. The sex wasn't that great even when it was still happening. I don't want to leave as I have a very comfortable life otherwise. We get along well enough outside the bedroom but I've been becoming increasingly frustrated with the lack of sex. Compounding the issue is that my libido is the highest it has been since I was in my 20s. I'm 46 now. I don't think about sex 24/7 but I think about it daily, usually several times a day. I fantasise about having extramarital sex with men who I find attractive. I sometimes give men the “eye” when I am out in public, and am flattered when they reciprocate. I fantasise about having passionate, lustful sex where we both are in a mad rush to rip each other’s clothes off. I have also found that the warm weather has enhanced my libido even further.

I wanted to ask if anyone here (I would like to hear from both women and men) has actually had extramarital sex and would be willing to share their experience. Did you regret it? It feels quite naughty to say, but the idea of an affair or even a one-off shag with someone else has become increasingly appealing to me. Not looking for any moralising about affairs or extramarital sex being wrong by the way, though I am sure some people will still try to do that anyway.

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Single parent in late 30s, husband left 2 years ago. The kids have found it difficult and still struggle so no jumping into new relationships for me.
I do sometimes just miss sex. Not just orgasms but generally intimacy with it too.

Do I just have to wait it out for me to just not be interested any more? Do I have to accept that part of my life is over?

I'm 20F &lightskin /black and I love white men and no it's not a phase I felt like this for years . People close to me would always speak on it and laugh at me for it but I like what I like . They are very nice to me they offer me things, speak to me with respect ask If I'm okay even if I dont know them . They give the best advice White men are very attractive to me. on average they tall af too , most of them are very caring I just feel like dont try to pick on them or make them mad cause I think they will hold in their anger and when they let it out its not nice I see it all the time lol. They know how to eat Pussy good af too and If he 30 -40 it's a plus for me . I love white men

Kinda sick of my wife's boring sex. She's a prude and really only likes what I find to be the most boring vanilla sex. That's led me here where I've both sexted and found girls to fuck around with irl. The best girls are the younger ones who like married older cock. They're always so lively and fun to eat out and fuck.

Didn't take it further than that but wanted to get back at the Cunt for always being such a bitch ever since I had started my job a few months back from micro managing every plan I had to disrespecting me in front of colleagues and I guess I just got super petty cause the moment I realized she was married I plotted to get the guy to let me fuck him. Took a while, and a lot of flirting cause the guy was surprisingly loyal. But at the end, I had him back against the wall as I blew him during a team zoom meeting his wife was as in.

Not going to lie, the idea of fucking some of the girls at work has been so tempting, and that being my dirty little secret from my gf makes it so hot. But back to the topic, I've never had the chance of having a proper cumslut that would beg for more and simply go for it when the cock is out, but the idea has always been so arousing that just writing about it right now has me hard and horny.

I fucked a 19 F student working for me. I was a bit concerned. But, she was happy afterwards. She seemed to be OK with being used as a cumrag by a respectable local businessman. I am happy we did it, it was a pleasure for me. It is difficult to engage in such stuff in smaller conservative communities. What can I say.. proud of my catch :O