Thought
1
Straight male
1881
10
Thoughts
In a sexless marriage and fantasising about extramarital sex
I’d like to ask for others’ opinions regarding my situation. I'm in a sexless marriage with my husband of 17 years. It's been sexless for almost 3 years and seems very unlikely to change. The sex wasn't that great even when it was still happening. I don't want to leave as I have a very comfortable life otherwise. We get along well enough outside the bedroom but I've been becoming increasingly frustrated with the lack of sex. Compounding the issue is that my libido is the highest it has been since I was in my 20s. I'm 46 now. I don't think about sex 24/7 but I think about it daily, usually several times a day. I fantasise about having extramarital sex with men who I find attractive. I sometimes give men the “eye” when I am out in public, and am flattered when they reciprocate. I fantasise about having passionate, lustful sex where we both are in a mad rush to rip each other’s clothes off. I have also found that the warm weather has enhanced my libido even further.

I wanted to ask if anyone here (I would like to hear from both women and men) has actually had extramarital sex and would be willing to share their experience. Did you regret it? It feels quite naughty to say, but the idea of an affair or even a one-off shag with someone else has become increasingly appealing to me. Not looking for any moralising about affairs or extramarital sex being wrong by the way, though I am sure some people will still try to do that anyway.
24   0   2025-09-28
Business
business_category
2027
11
Confessions
Bendella Web Studio
Bendella helps businesses cut advertising costs and increase sales through user-friendly technology. We develop intelligent websites and apps that connect to social media, helping you reach more customers, along with customer management systems and business tools designed to help retain existing clients.
34   0   2025-10-03
Thought/Feeling
2030
11
Confessions
What's your thought or feeling about?
Share what's on your mind or in your heart. This is your space to express yourself freely and connect with others who understand. Your voice matters.Share what's on your mind or in your heart. This is your space to express yourself freely and connect with others who understand. Your voice matters.
40   0   2025-10-03
Thought
1
Straight male
1885
10
Thoughts
Does your interest in sex fade completely when you're not having it?
Single parent in late 30s, husband left 2 years ago. The kids have found it difficult and still struggle so no jumping into new relationships for me.
I do sometimes just miss sex. Not just orgasms but generally intimacy with it too.

Do I just have to wait it out for me to just not be interested any more? Do I have to accept that part of my life is over?
47   0   2025-09-28
Confession
1
Straight male
580
11
Confessions
I love younger pussy
Kinda sick of my wife's boring sex. She's a prude and really only likes what I find to be the most boring vanilla sex. That's led me here where I've both sexted and found girls to fuck around with irl. The best girls are the younger ones who like married older cock. They're always so lively and fun to eat out and fuck.
62   0   2024-08-17
Confession
1
Straight male
593
11
Confessions
I've always wanted my own little cumslut
Not going to lie, the idea of fucking some of the girls at work has been so tempting, and that being my dirty little secret from my gf makes it so hot. But back to the topic, I've never had the chance of having a proper cumslut that would beg for more and simply go for it when the cock is out, but the idea has always been so arousing that just writing about it right now has me hard and horny.
62   0   2024-08-18
Confession
1
Straight male
594
11
Confessions
40 M businessman, I fucked a student working for me
I fucked a 19 F student working for me. I was a bit concerned. But, she was happy afterwards. She seemed to be OK with being used as a cumrag by a respectable local businessman. I am happy we did it, it was a pleasure for me. It is difficult to engage in such stuff in smaller conservative communities. What can I say.. proud of my catch :O
62   0   2024-08-18
Confession
1
Straight female
599
11
Confessions
Didn't let my period stop me from rubbing
My period is almost over but I'm impatient and horny.... I spent the entire day chatting on FB, talking about dirty things with strangers and it made my pussy so wet I just had to touch! I got in the tub again to make sure it would be less messy and pulled my clit hood back to expose my engorged clit and started to rub away!

I was chatting to people all the while one hand was rubbing up and down my clit hehe it was really arousing and I even took a small video of my pussy while I masturbated and saw some blood mixing with my pussy juices drip out of my hole, normally I would be grossed out but it was so hot to watch! I continued to rub on the side of my clit imagining that all the dirty and perverted people I was chatting too were watching me masturbate my pussy and that made me quiver and cum!

I had such a lovely orgasm in the tub that left my cunt throbbing! while I came I didn't stop rubbing and made sure my clit was sore after I came! I know I'm horny girl so why should I let a period stop me from pleasuring my cunt especially when my pussy craves it so bad? I hope this wasn't too gross to read and you enjoyed it hehe
62   0   2024-08-18
Confession
1
Straight female
601
11
Confessions
Made an uber fuck f@ntasy come true
m so fucking horny just thinking about it. I got an uber to the mall when I didn't really need to get anything so I can give them a tease to see if he would be interested. he was so I, for lack of better term, seduced him and brought me to a secluded-ish street and fucked me un the back seat he pit music on so I can moan as he fucking railed me, gods it was so good
62   0   2024-08-18