I’d like to ask for others’ opinions regarding my situation. I'm in a sexless marriage with my husband of 17 years. It's been sexless for almost 3 years and seems very unlikely to change. The sex wasn't that great even when it was still happening. I don't want to leave as I have a very comfortable life otherwise. We get along well enough outside the bedroom but I've been becoming increasingly frustrated with the lack of sex. Compounding the issue is that my libido is the highest it has been since I was in my 20s. I'm 46 now. I don't think about sex 24/7 but I think about it daily, usually several times a day. I fantasise about having extramarital sex with men who I find attractive. I sometimes give men the “eye” when I am out in public, and am flattered when they reciprocate. I fantasise about having passionate, lustful sex where we both are in a mad rush to rip each other’s clothes off. I have also found that the warm weather has enhanced my libido even further.

I wanted to ask if anyone here (I would like to hear from both women and men) has actually had extramarital sex and would be willing to share their experience. Did you regret it? It feels quite naughty to say, but the idea of an affair or even a one-off shag with someone else has become increasingly appealing to me. Not looking for any moralising about affairs or extramarital sex being wrong by the way, though I am sure some people will still try to do that anyway.

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Single parent in late 30s, husband left 2 years ago. The kids have found it difficult and still struggle so no jumping into new relationships for me.
I do sometimes just miss sex. Not just orgasms but generally intimacy with it too.

Do I just have to wait it out for me to just not be interested any more? Do I have to accept that part of my life is over?

I started my first year of campus last year. All was well until my family discovered I was dating/seeing a guy 11 years older then me. Now I don't see the issue with this, 11 years isn't that much and we're both consenting adults. However my parents disagreed and cut me off. Not wanting to take out loans I needed something that would pay off, and I decided to start stripping. It's only been about a month but I've already paid off my tuition and expect to pay off the semester before classes even start in august.

Stripping has been extremely freeing. It's allowed me to gain confidence and I overall love all the attention I've been getting from both men and women. While my family is even more pissed at me now, I've never been happier and don't want to stop. My bf is proud of me and encourages me. It's really allowing me to get comfortable with my sexuality and I've gotten less shy in bed which Ik my bf loves.

So my sneaky link is my married coworker, as yall have seen on my previous posts. And hes been my, well, pretty much everything. I've tried cutting him off so many times but always find myself weak when he begs for more. Its so hard for me to say no, to anyone about anything ever because I am such a people pleaser and dont want to let (men specifically) down. But Im attempting to cut him off currently and I'm not responding to him at all. Its time I pursue (and fuck the everliving shit out of) someone else for once. How do I not give in to him again!? Im extra horny and have told him not to let himself in my place anymore......in hopes he does anyway Please any actual advice would be great im dying here.

Not going to lie, the idea of fucking some of the girls at work has been so tempting, and that being my dirty little secret from my gf makes it so hot. But back to the topic, I've never had the chance of having a proper cumslut that would beg for more and simply go for it when the cock is out, but the idea has always been so arousing that just writing about it right now has me hard and horny.

Today was the first time I ever hooked up with someone outside my marriage. I was nervous and feeling like I shouldn't do it leading up to it but after it happened I feel no regret. Wife started new job 2 weeks ago and I get home a few hours before she does so I'm always alone till she comes home. I usually spend most of time on the hub or on here jerking off to stories I read. Well I found my local subreddit of many people hooking up etc. while scrolling one day I come across a post of this girl looking for someone that fits my build. I decided to just act on it without thinking nothing will come from it.

We talked for a few days always play along saying we will meet some time. Today I decided to jump my urges invited her over before the wife got home and received a blow job from this girl and it was amazing. What I added to the thrill of it is she was running late and showed up almost to the time my wife was getting off work and it takes her 30 min to get home. Girl left and not even 10 min later wife rolls up and I greeted her with a smile and my balls drained out from the blowjob. Since then I haven't stopped thinking of this girl and wanting to have more adventures like this with her.currently laying her talking to her while wife is asleep next to me.

I found texts with a 'daddy.' She's a cute girl and I would never have expected. After knowing what she's willing to do for money behind my back for some creepy late 30 yo I've been fucking her dirtier and dirtier. I've lost all respect for her and this relationship and just have been fucking her like what she's decided to be. The sex is amazing. I just couldn't imagine when I met her such a cute petite shy girl would let an asshole controlling creep buy her body to degrade. I was trying to have a long term relationship with her but it's just turned into me fucking her like a toy too. It's so hot. I never expected to ever fuck an 18yo like this and it's so hot seeing such a cute girl be such a slut.