My wife will not even consider the thought of me ejaculating in her mouth but has requested several times that I try my own off her breasts to gain an understanding of what irs like.

The idea isn't that appealing but it's got me thinking about double standards

Has anyone been in a similar situation and experimented ?

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Single parent in late 30s, husband left 2 years ago. The kids have found it difficult and still struggle so no jumping into new relationships for me.
I do sometimes just miss sex. Not just orgasms but generally intimacy with it too.

Do I just have to wait it out for me to just not be interested any more? Do I have to accept that part of my life is over?

It started out with me being very into porn that involved/centered around Nipple/Breast play porn. I'm not particularly into women contrary to what my peers think (I act very tomboyish and my friends know about my fixation with breasts). On the contrary I always imagined that those were my breasts being played with/slapped/pinched in the video. Sadly, I couldn't feel any pleasure from touching or even pinching my nipples at that time. I didn't feel anything at all which sucked because my chest was my favorite part of my body (it's not too small but not too big and it fits perfectly in the palm of my hands) and obviously my breast/nipple kink made it even more upsetting. I then decided to train my nipples to become more sensitive.

I don't fully remember how I did it. It was a stupid idea that I didn't think would even work but man it paid off! Okay I've been rambling. Here's the good part for anyone who wants to make their nipples more sensitive (like me. I'm also taking tips btw!) as well as perverts (like me). How I did it- It started out with continually pinching my nipples. Not enough to hurt but enough to feel the pressure. So basically I used my pointer finger and thumb to pinch my nipples repeatedly without removing them. Just over and over. I did this for about a month or more until I really saw (well, felt) the results.

They weren't sensitive to the touch but I finally felt something other than dull pressure or pain whenever I pinched my nipples. By then I started experimenting with temperature play/ice play~ I would grab some ice from the kitchen and wrap the piece of ice in a towel and wait until it got wet. I would then press the wet and cold part of the towel where I could feel the brunt of the ice against each nipple. Another way if you're okay with it being colder is putting the ice inside a ziplock bag. It's much more colder that way. It actually feels like the ice is directly touching you.

I would then rub the cold ice against my nipple specifically. I would make it so I wasn't pressing too hard. Feather touches gliding over my skin made my nipples gradually harden. I would tease my nipple, rubbing the ice in a slow, light, circular motion. Whenever my nipples numbed, I would remove the ice and use my other hand (the one that didn't touch the ice) and massage my breasts. I would even use baby oil sometimes. Once my nipples weren't numb anymore, I would use the ice again. Rinse and repeat. This was also around the same time I started using toys. Well, makeshift toys.

Whatever I had lying around basically. I would use butterfly clips, small clips, and clothespins and clamp them around my nipples. I would also use the fridge magnet which acted like a clip where you can attach papers or notes for the same reason. (It was hard to explain to my roommates at that time why it was in my bedroom in the first place) I also used these tiny buy REALLY strong magnets I found at the store. I would grab two for each nipple and hold the two magnets close together and I would let go and it felt like someone was biting my nipples.

It was amazing. (I forgot to mention that I did all of my training at night) I have also slept with the makeshift clamps on as well. It hurt bad when I woke up but in a good way. It's true what they say that removing the clamp after a long period hurts more than actually putting it on. It was sore and I couldn't help but wince as I removed both. It's definitely the worst part. But the pleasure that comes with it is incomparable and fucking amazing. It's my favorite part of wearing clamps for a reason. Removing them hurt and my nipples are still sore as hell but once they rub against the blanket or my shirt in that state constantly leaves me wet.

I just know I would instantaneously cum from being fucked doggy style with my chest against the bed (or a cold surface like an office table) after having just removed some clamps. I always imagine it. Anyways It's been a year since I first started and my nipples are crazy sensitive. I still do the training. Mostly out of pleasure. I spend extended periods being clamped and am always topless when I'm asleep. Now I feel pleasure from my nipples rubbing against my shirt or against the blanket when I'm sleeping topless.

They're so sensitive. A lot of the time, even when it's not cold, they would harden under my shirt and they would stick out from under the fabric. I've been in embarrassing situations where people pointed it out. It's that serious lol. I can't even wear only sports bras to the gym because they pebble and it's so obvious. Anyways, that's pretty much it. Just wanted to share. Only my nipples are sensitive though. I still wish my breasts were just as sensitive :(( If anyone has any tips to make my breasts more sensitive, I'd love to hear it On another note.. I'm considering nipple piercings

I got really, really, really high. I was watching porn and found a lesbian porn and was absolutely mesmerized watching the girls touch each other so gently. My pussy got so leaky watching them play with each other's tits and eating and finger fucking each other's pussies. I was fucking my pussy with my toy and started cumming and it was so fucking intense to cum while being in an extremely euphoric state, it was the best orgasm I have had yet… I actually got light headed and dizzy… I screamed “I want to fuck a girl” repeatedly while I was cumming… Starting to be curious about if I like women… I think I might…

I started my first year of campus last year. All was well until my family discovered I was dating/seeing a guy 11 years older then me. Now I don't see the issue with this, 11 years isn't that much and we're both consenting adults. However my parents disagreed and cut me off. Not wanting to take out loans I needed something that would pay off, and I decided to start stripping. It's only been about a month but I've already paid off my tuition and expect to pay off the semester before classes even start in august.

Stripping has been extremely freeing. It's allowed me to gain confidence and I overall love all the attention I've been getting from both men and women. While my family is even more pissed at me now, I've never been happier and don't want to stop. My bf is proud of me and encourages me. It's really allowing me to get comfortable with my sexuality and I've gotten less shy in bed which Ik my bf loves.

I love wearing slutty clothes that show of my body and I dont really wear underwear unless it's a thong maybe the occasional bra. Love low cut crop tops, anything thing that has cut outs or has a 2piece ofmateral of the titties top. Shorts that my ass hangs out off and that don't really cover my pussy either or mini skirts and dresses with no bra or panties underneath anything see through as mesh. I love having men check me out and then flash them especially men in relationships and older men especially older men they always fuck me good and flashing older men taken or not always makes my pussy wet and my clit throb.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, older taken men will always be my turn on. Speaking to them while they work, speaking to them while they're at home in secret with their wives. Sending them pictures of me to enjoy. Fuck. It'll never get old! I love watching them cum over me, moaning for me, telling me how hot I am and how much more I turn them on than their wives. I love that they shouldn't want me but do, shouldn't spoil me but do. Our little secret. Everyday is a play day and I love it haha